Wednesday, December 19, 2012

"OUR" Happily Ever After

After all the horrible statements that have been made about me throughout this past year, that are ALL based on lies, I'm starting to rethink how nice and considerate I have been. This past week I have been called "untrustworthy", "delusional sociopath", "unreliable", and was told I am no longer respected...all because I kept my word. I try to be honest, open, well-planned, and organized...which in most cases makes an individual MORE trustworthy and reliable.The people who made these statements lied and manipulated me, tried to change an agreement that was written in advance, and were upset because I wanted to stick to the agreement.

I have gone out of my way to try and make the best of this horrible situation that we are all in. Of course, most of you wouldn't know that because you have been given misleading information, half-truths, or flat out lies. I am somewhat forgiving of some of your actions because I understand that you do not know the truth about the situation. Only Rob and myself know the truth 100%. Those of you that are closest to us, still are not aware of every detail. All the gossiping and drama needs to stop! We are all adults and it's about time that everyone starts acting like it.

Brayden has never been "kept" from Rob, and he never will be! I am VERY disappointed in those of you who know me, and know my character, who think that I would ever try to keep Brayden away from his dad. I am WAY nicer to Rob than most ex's are to each other. I am respectful of his feelings and try to keep him updated and in contact with Brayden as often as I can. I understand he is heart broken and sad that Brayden is no longer with him, as most dads would be...but moving to Arizona was the ONLY option Brayden and I had and I would make it again in a heartbeat. Brayden does not hear one negative thing about Rob or anyone else in the family...no matter how I feel about them.

A couple statements I would like to address:

"Your a delusional sociopath"

First, lets read up on this for a moment....
Definition: psychopath
Synonyms: antisocial personality, crazy person, deranged person, insane person, lunatic, mad person, maniac, psycho, psychotic, schizoid
Well, we all know that not one of those things describes me in any way.


"That stupid **** can rot in hell.." said by the not so lovely, or lady like, Brittany...

hmmm.....like I said earlier...you have ALL been told lies, or over exaggerated half-truths....so maybe you should sit back and rethink anything you might have been told about me...and get your facts straight before publicly bashing me and making yourself look stupid and uneducated.




*After reading this post...most of you will probably hear more not so true things about me by people who feel the need to defend themselves....I have kept everything documented and saved from the past 4 years...and can provide proof if anyone feels the need to question anything I have said.
Not that it is anyone's business in the first place....

 I am getting awfully sick of having to defend myself everyday for something new that is said.


*IF YOU RESPECTED ME AS THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD/GRANDCHILD, YOU WOULD NOT BE TREATING ME OR TALKING TO ME THE WAY YOU HAVE BEEN.



Moving on.......

As you can see this blog is titled, "OUR" Happily Ever After....plural....

Brayden and I are moving on and are trying to make the best of our new lives. I have been told not to put any pictures of Brayden with Kylan or his kids on this blog. Which, now that I think about it, is completely ridiculous! Kylan and his kids are a huge part of Brayden's life now and will always be. If you want to continue seeing how Brayden is doing and what he's up to on a daily basis, your going to have to suck it up and get over it. He is VERY happy, healthy, and learning more and more everyday. He is well taken care of and is surrounded by loving people who only want whats best for him. He is being raised in a godly environment and you should all be very thankful that I am his mother. Most women are not like me...Brayden could not possibly have a better mother...I am not trying to be vain, I am just confident in knowing that I am doing what is best for him and raising him the right way.

2013 is going to be bring LOTS of changes...and I expect you guys to grow up and start showing me a little bit more respect than you have been. We are all in this together...forever....so you better find a way to handle it.






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